So we made it to the first Wednesday of 2022. Some call it hump day – let’s consider it the day we decided to forgive and reconcile!


Is there a bump in your road today? Is today a hump day for you? What is causing it to have a bump? What is making it a hump day? And no it has nothing to do with camels. This week has been very interesting as we start it with a theme of REVIVE and the year with a theme of THRIVE. This week has also been interesting during this week of prayer and fasting that we started with repentance and our need to turn back to God, we then moved to renewal which we need each day, and today we step up and step into the topic of reconciliation.

Do you realize that it is God’s heart to reconcile relationships? Do you realize that the number one enemy or deterrent to relationships is sin? Sin brings distance and destruction to relationships that were meant to be close and life-giving. We find it in God’s Word where we read in 2 Corinthians 5:19 and so we can pray as it says in the Amplified version tells us:

‘But all these things are from God, who reconciled us to Himself through Christ [making us acceptable to Him] and gave us the ministry of reconciliation [so that by our example we might bring others to Him], that is, that God was in Christ reconciling the world to Himself, not counting people’s sins against them [but canceling them]. And He has committed to us the message of reconciliation [that is, restoration to favor with God]. So we are ambassadors for Christ, as though God were making His appeal through us; we [as Christ’s representatives] plead with you on behalf of Christ to be reconciled to God. ‘

2 Corinthians 5:18-20

The only way we can be reconciled to God is through the forgiveness of our sins and the peace that comes from Jesus. Forgiveness opens the door to reconciliation. I remember a time when I resisted forgiving some people who had wronged me and it put me into a downward spiral of bitterness, anger, frustration, and more. It took nearly hitting rock bottom before I was ready to turn back and forgive them. I remember the song 7×70 coming on the radio and God starting the process in me. He started with having me forgive others like Jesus taught in Matthew 5:23-24 where it says:

‘So if you are presenting your offering at the altar, and while there you remember that your brother has something [such as a grievance or legitimate complaint] against you, leave your offering there at the altar and go. First make peace with your brother, and then come and present your offering. ‘

Matthew 5:23-24

As I was finishing this then God’s Word came to me again that “as I forgive others God will forgive me” and so looking at Mark 11:25, we read:

‘Whenever you stand praying, if you have anything against anyone, forgive him [drop the issue, let it go], so that your Father who is in heaven will also forgive you your transgressions and wrongdoings [against Him and others]. ‘

Mark 11:25

It was incredible the feeling that happened after asking God to forgive me as He had been speaking to me since the beginning that I needed to forgive them. Each time I had excuses why I shouldn’t, couldn’t, or wouldn’t. During my commute, each song that played spoke to me to forgive them. It took a lot of energy to resist it and not do it. I learned how not forgiving them was like taking poison and expecting them to die, it doesn’t work. So the key is first to forgive them as it is the cure to your heart and mind pains and brings a peace that surpasses all understanding. I remember that moment where I had forgiven others and asked God to forgive me and the weight that was lifted from my shoulders.

Let’s grab onto a few additional scriptures from Romans as we step into prayer:

‘For if while we were enemies we were reconciled to God through the death of His Son, it is much more certain, having been reconciled, that we will be saved [from the consequences of sin] by His life [that is, we will be saved because Christ lives today]. Not only that, but we also rejoice in God [rejoicing in His love and perfection] through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received and enjoy our reconciliation [with God]. ‘

Romans 5:10-11

‘If possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. ‘

Romans 12:18

The interesting thing is it always depends on us. We have the choice, the free will to decide how we will respond to what is being said and done to us. We can’t control what others may say or do but we can control how we respond to them.

So today as we step into prayer time, let’s grab hold of these areas:

  • Ask God to show you any areas in your relationship with Him that need to be forgiven and reconciled.
  • Ask God to give you the courage and strength to forgive those who have hurt you and to show you what steps you need to take to facilitate reconciliation.
  • Pray for peace, unity and reconciliation in your family, our church and in the larger Body of Christ.

So where are you at today? What is the bump on your road? Is it hump day and does it need to be? Might today be the day you take the step to be reconciled to others and reconciled to God? Might today be the day that you forgive all those you have been bitter towards and angry with? Might today be the day you step up and step into the most incredible relationship possible with Jesus? Let’s pray:

Dear God
I admit I am a sinner and need your forgiveness; I believe that Jesus Christ died in my place paying the penalty for my sins. I am willing right now to turn from my sin and accept Jesus as my personal Savior and Lord. I commit myself to you and ask you to send the Holy Spirit into my life, to fill me and take control, and help me become the kind of person you want me to be. Thank you Father for loving me. In Jesus' name. 
Amen

Today’s post from Be The Dads is Day 5 – Pointing Your Family to the Real Hero